Family Law Attorney in Oklahoma City
At Lily Debrah Cruickshank & Associates, family law isn’t just about case files but people, emotions, and life-changing decisions. For over twenty years, our team has helped families navigate their most challenging moments, from divorce and custody disputes to complex family law issues. Your peace of mind starts with us.
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Dedicated Family Law Firm in OKC: Experience. Empathy. Results.
Our team at Lily Debrah Cruickshank & Associates knows that effective legal solutions require understanding each client's unique circumstances. Our mettle has been tested over decades of helping OK families in thousands of successful family law matters. We combine genuine compassion and exceptional representation, providing the personal attention you deserve throughout this challenging time.
We're committed to using the latest technology to provide efficient and cost-effective legal services while focusing on communication and transparency, ensuring you're always informed and involved in the process.
Our legal team transforms difficult legal situations into opportunities for a better tomorrow.
- 20 years of experience
- 1000+ litigation cases won
- Client-focused approach
- Flexible fee arrangements
- Virtual & in-person consultations
Navigating Life's Transitions: 

Compassionate Family Law Solutions
Divorce
Our experienced divorce attorneys in OKC provide compassionate guidance through every step, from negotiation to litigation, ensuring a fair and equitable outcome tailored to your specific circumstances. We handle all types of divorce, including high-asset, contested, uncontested, and military divorces. Let us help you navigate this transition with confidence.
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Child Custody
Protecting your children's best interests is our priority. We provide dedicated representation in all child custody matters, including child disputes, visitation, custody agreements, and modifications. Our compassionate child custody lawyers work to create solutions that foster a healthy and stable environment for your children while ensuring your parental rights are respected.
Property Divison
Dividing assets after a separation or divorce can be stressful. We offer legal counsel to help you achieve a fair and equitable distribution of property. Our strategic approach protects your financial future, ensuring you receive what you deserve. We handle all types of assets, including real estate, investments, and business interests.
Adoption
Welcome your child into your family with confidence. Our adoption attorneys provide legal support for private and step-parent adoptions. We handle the legal complexities, allowing you to focus on the joys of building your family. Our services ensure a legally sound and efficient adoption process, minimizing stress and maximizing your peace of mind.
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Domestic Violence
Experiencing domestic violence can be terrifying and isolating. We provide strong legal advocacy and compassionate support to help you find safety and justice. Our experienced attorneys will help you obtain protective orders, restraining orders, and other legal protections to ensure your security and well-being.
Guardianship
Our firm offers dedicated legal services for guardianships, including both guardianship for minors and guardianship for incapacitated adults. We address the unique needs of each situation, providing legal support in areas such as medical care decisions, financial management, and legal representation. Our goal is to secure the best possible care and well-being for your loved one.
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LGBTQIA+ Family Law
We are committed to providing inclusive and equitable legal representation to LGBTQIA+ individuals and families. Our LGBT family lawyers handle marriage, divorce, adoption, surrogacy, and other matters relevant to the LGBTQIA+ community. We understand the unique challenges and complexities faced by our LGBTQIA+ clients and are dedicated to protecting their rights.
Find Peace of Mind for Your Family!
Our Oklahoma City family law firm delivers effective legal solutions and achieves the best possible outcomes for our clients. Schedule a consultation to discuss your case and discover how we can help secure your family's future.
Meet Our OKC Family Attorneys, 

Dedicated to Your Success
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Lily Debrah Cruickshank
Lily Debrah Cruickshank, the founding attorney and owner, brings two decades of experience to Oklahoma City families. A compassionate and results-oriented lawyer, Ms. Cruickshank is dedicated to providing effective legal solutions for families facing a wide range of family law challenges. Attorney Cruickshank is highly respected within the OKC legal community and by judges throughout the state for her tireless work ethic, sharp litigation skills, and reputation for honest representation. Her client-centered approach ensures personalized attention and strong advocacy throughout the legal process.
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Gracelyn Porras Dillingham
Gracelyn Porras Dillingham is a skilled Oklahoma City attorney with a strong academic background and valuable practical experience. A graduate of Oklahoma City University School of Law, she achieved Dean's Honor Roll and participated in Mock Trial. Over the past two years, Attorney Porras has used her local knowledge and connections to be a rising star in the OKC legal community. She is dedicated to helping Oklahoma City families navigate challenging family law matters, earning the trust of her clients through thoughtful counsel, strong advocacy, and a deep commitment to achieving positive outcomes.
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Our Reach: Serving Oklahoma City 
and Beyond
We proudly serve the Oklahoma City community from our downtown office. 
Our experienced legal team extends its reach to surrounding areas, providing comprehensive family law services to families throughout the region.
- Cleveland
- Lawton
- Shawnee
- Chickasha
- Guthrie
- Yukon
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Located in downtown Oklahoma City
Find Clarity and Direction for Your Family's Legal Matters!
Are you facing a family law challenge? Our experienced attorneys provide strategic legal representation, protecting your rights and ensuring the best possible outcome. Schedule a consultation to discuss your situation and develop a plan.
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Address722 N Broadway Ave
Suite 402
Oklahoma City, OK 73102
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Phone(405)-694-4309
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Fax(405)-606-3065
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